December, 2023
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It's that time of year...

When people express season's greetings. But what do you say when someone is having a hard time and sending a cheery greeting feels off?

I discovered that using an AI (Artificial Intelligence) tool such as Google's Bard or ChatGPT was useful for generating some ideas that I could use as a starting point. Check out the prompts I tried and the results it gave.
cartoon cat trying to write a holiday card but not sure what to say
Prompt: give me ideas for what to write in a holiday card for someone who is having a hard time

Results:
  • May the warmth of the holiday season bring you comfort and peace.
  • I know things are different now, but I hope you can still find some moments of joy this holiday season. I'm thinking of you and sending love.
  • I know things have been tough lately, but I wanted to let you know that you're not alone.
Prompt: give me ideas for what to write in a card for someone who is ill

Results:
  • I'm so sorry to hear that you're not feeling well. I'm thinking of you and wishing for a speedy recovery.
  • Sending you all my love and positive vibes.
It also provided additional tips, which I think are pretty good!
  • Keep your message short and sweet.
  • Be personal and heartfelt.
  • Share a funny memory or story.
  • Use positive and encouraging language.
  • Let the person know that you care about them.

It's the Little Things

Never underestimate the power of a small gesture! It can make a big difference to someone who is having a hard time.

That's why the US postal service is one of my favorite thingsbecause you can send love in the mail. Mail these days consists mostly of junk, so sending a card has the power to brighten someone's entire day.

I had a teacher who once said "When you can't think of anything to write, just sign your name." At first I thought that might feel strange, but I think I would rather get a card in the mail with just a signature, than not get a card at all. That it’s not so much what you say, it's the gesture that’s important. What do you think?
cartoon cat puts a card in a mailbox and it goes to a cat friend and cheers them up

“No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”
Aesop

Resources

Visit my website for links to my books, prayers (nonreligious) and other resources.
cartoon cats representing books, prayers, and resources
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